I just want to echo that this really takes time.

My ds struggled with remembering the verbs of being for awhile. We just have said them together when they come up in the lesson, in kind of a little chant:
am, is, are
was, were
be, being, been
Now, he always remembers them, but it took a year of this.

As we are moving through R & S 4, he is starting to realize on his own the benefit of memorizing a few things. First, he understands he will be asked these questions during the 5 question oral review (in the teacher's guide). Second, he will be asked these questions in his written work too. So, he's getting the picture these questions come back around and really do help him when he takes the time to commit them to memory. I am very glad that he doesn't have to recite a bunch of lists every day though, as the way R & S does it makes it be part of writing and not a separate list of facts to be memorized. I think if you just stick to doing the oral questions, talking through the assignments, and make index cards or a chant for the things over time he still can't quite remember, he'll do very well!

R & S English is an outstanding program, and you really reap the benefits of it several years into it as it builds on what was learned each year so well, while still reviewing as you go.
In Christ,
Julie